• Asafum@feddit.nl
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    1 year ago

    Inconsideration. Drives me absolutely crazy.

    Stupid things like being at work, someone uses the last of something and just leaves the empty box and tells no one that we’re out. To me that says “fuck you, someone else can clean this. I got what I need, the person who needs it next can say we need more.”

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      1 year ago

      Try to get a quick lunch, sit down to eat, asshole in corner listening to tiktok at full volume, imagine murdering this pos through the entire meal.

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        1 year ago

        His name is Lou and he drives me insane…

        The full volume is annoying enough, but shit like tiktok is like listening to someone change the channel every 5 seconds… And at full volume…

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          sped up song sample
          “oh no, oh no, oh no no no no no.”

          robot voice
          How, It, FEELS. to Find a PENNY!
          oh MY god. Wow.

          sped up sample
          “oh no, oh no, oh no no no no no.”

          robot voice
          my CAT. is so, cute!

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    Exercise. In my case it’s so bad that “sitting upright” counts as exercise. Or “watching something slightly intellectually stimulating”. I basically live 24/7 in bed. Haven’t showered in months. I look forward to the next day my wife shaves off my ugly ass dirty greasy hair.

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        My illness is chronic but my tits are iconic!

        So, uh, no, I’m not ok. I’m glad I live in a country with a somewhat working social safety net and I’m lucky to have a loving wife who can take care of me.

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          Ive been through a fraction of this, and I can only imagine how not nice it must be to be debilitated like this.

          I wish you the best for the chronic illness, and congratulate you for the tits.

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    Not being on time. Having enough going on, I don’t want to waste my time waiting for someone.

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    1 year ago

    Not trying to contact people when they leave, they need contact unless they explicitly say they need time

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    It’s a real problem, but I hate filler words. “Um uh hmm” just immediately makes me want to cover my ears and tune out the conversation. It’s at a level where I’ve seriously considered vocal therapy to make certain I never do them anymore, but that doesn’t really solve the issue since nearly everyone ends up using them. I just have to try and let go of the obsession, but it’s so hard.

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      1 year ago

      That’s sad to hear, especially since filler words are a vital part of our language

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      1 year ago

      I would tack on shitty drivers in general. People driving in the shoulder just bc they’re in a hurry or think they’re important, not using turn signals, not letting people merge, being distracted using their phone, weaving through traffic at high speed; things got way worse during the pandemic and they haven’t at all improved at least as far as I can tell.

    • sylver_dragon@lemmy.world
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      So much this. I was having a discussion with one religious zealot and he kept insisting, “he’s your god too” when I referred to yahweh as “his god”. No asshole, I don’t subscribe to your fairy tales. Though, in a nod to keeping the discussion civil, I limited my responses, to “no, I don’t subscribe to your beliefs.” Getting upset, yelling or insulting only plays to their ability to project victim-hood. So, it’s important to stay calm and keep the conversation rational and focused on the failures of their explanations. You will never convince the delusional to give up their delusions, but you can convince the other people around, who aren’t fully delusional, to question the delusions.