The home, which was run by an order of Catholic nuns and closed in 1961, was one of many such institutions that housed tens of thousands of orphans and unmarried pregnant women who were forced to give up their children throughout much of the 20th century.

In 2014, historian Catherine Corless tracked down death certificates for nearly 800 children who died at the home in Tuam between the 1920s and 1961 — but could only find a burial record for one child.

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    Playing devil’s advocate here, could it be that they ran something like a baby euthanasia outfit? like, no contraceptives back then, extreme social stigma surrounding birth out of wedlock, poverty forcing women to give up their newborns, giving them up to the nunnery, which had no resources to deal with feeding caring and raising thousands upon thousands of children, and so either A) simply took it upon themselves to take the logical step and cull some of them, or B) that a high number of babies died of natural causes (neglect, malnutrition, sudden infant death syndrome, disease, whatever) and they simply disposed of them.

    I don’t know what else could explain this, it’s not like we’re seriously talking about gangs of murderous baby killing nuns roaming the streets at night and snatching up babies by the hundreds for lust murders, right?

    As far as I’m concerned, the only crime here is the institutionalized psychopathy of a religious patriarchal system that refused to take responsibility for giving people a legal and moral avenue to raise children that were brought into life in violation of religious law.

    Makes more sense to me at least, I may be fuck way off wrong.

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      So you think they “care” so much about these single women and their babies that they would kill their babies and hide their remains in a septic tank?, what’s wrong with you. Don’t you think the more humane thing would be to promote contraceptives and safe sex and safe abortions in case of accidental pregnancies, and run proper orphanages for the unwanted kids. But of course the actual church is against all of this, cause the idea that religion has anything to do with morality is ridiculously stupid. All religions are cults full of dumb fucks desperate to matter in this meaningless existence.

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        Nuns, historically, have not had much if any authority in the church. I think just a couple of years ago they ousted one of the only female pastors in the USA.

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          What made you think I’m talking about nuns, I’m talking about those in power, who’s orders they follow willingly, they could choose not to and walk away or expose the church higher ups, they choose not to, so don’t tell me about nuns being powerless, what they are is soulless

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            If only it were so easy. I’ve been atheist since middle school but I was raised by a Catholic and an Evangelical, if a person actually believes they suffer for eternity for not appealing to the source of all true good then you’re not going to convince them to walk away because of the church’s policy on condoms. And even if you did convince a handful, it’s not going to dent the Church’s bottom line. Real change has to come from the higher ranks.

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      Yeah to me it sounds like the babies died of such causes and weren’t intentionally killed. I can imagine that trying to get rid of the bodies in other ways (burial, cremation, dumping elsewhere) would make the many deaths too visible or obvious, and would lead to questioning. But they could be hidden in the sewage.

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      My ¢2, devil’s advocate, maybe they were trying to protect the women from emotional trauma, they’d still have some but, maybe an attempt to reduce it. Obviously they could have done different things to do that better, but, maybe it was what they thought was their only option. New Mom’s baby dies, instead of telling her that her child is dead, they hide it and tell her that it was adopted or transferred somewhere it would be taken care of or whatever.

      It’s far fetched, probably unlikely, but hey, devil’s advocate, it’s a possibility.

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      There’s a behind the bastards episode about it if you’d like to actually educate yourself on why so many of the children died and why they were so callously thrown in the septic and stop sounding so ignorant

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        Or you can just tell us why, instead of being insulting and vague about it. Hell, you didn’t even link which episode has the information you say he is ignorant for not knowing about.

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          Lemmy is worse than reddit in terms of unhinged and hateful replies to benign, good-faith but ignorant comments. I don’t know how shut-in the users here are but everyone is itching to rip someone’s throat out over imagined slights or the desperate, performative need to look better than someone else who doesn’t know something.

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            This! Im gonna get down voted for this im sure but I’ve been using Lemmy instead of reddit for almost a year now or so but the hive mind is almost worse here than it is on reddit! People here seem to not be interested in actual discussion unless you agree 100% with them. It’s frustrating, I was hoping Lemmy was gonna be better.

            Oh well, at least there’s less bigots and my app still works haha

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            Wow, yeah, i just randomly read through this thread- i basically never read replies because it’s full of the shit you’re talking about and I was just thinking, damn, this is even worse than reddit.

            Lots of identity confused kids in here, I think, I ever only hear this type of jargon and lack of openness and anti-intellectuality from that demographic.

            Fucking shame. Came here from reddit to get away from that.

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            There’s probably significant overlap with the Linux warriors here who will respond to people’s legitimate questions with variations of “why don’t you just not do that and instead do this other thing that doesn’t solve your issue” (and also not explain how to do that either).

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        I changed my upvote to a little cute “down” arrow when I got to the end of your short but unhinged comment. Way to turn “informative” into “needlessly spiteful for no good reason.” You could have ended the comment with a link to the episode even.

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      Article says

      DNA analysis found that the ages of the dead ranged from 35 weeks gestation to 3 years.

      A major inquiry into the mother-and-baby homes found that in total, about 9,000 children died in 18 different mother-and-baby homes, with major causes including respiratory infections and gastroenteritis, otherwise known as the stomach flu.

      So basically just Dysentery, yeah. The nuns were no saints (lol) either, though, because they punished the unmaried mothers and put them through hard labor (lol).

      This is a terrible time for jokes, I’m so sorry about that. I always make sure to ask for forgiveness (lol).

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        dude… WTF is with the (lol)s in your post? None of what you said is funny, or even reads remotely like it’s even trying to be a joke.

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          Right, okay

          1. “they’re no saints” is funny because they’re part of a religious organization who revere saints

          2. “made to do labor” is funny because in english Labor is a term used to describe the final step of childbirth

          3. “ask for forgiveness” again because religion that reveres asking the lord for forgiveness.

          Hope that helps you out, buddy.

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      Religion is a social cancer. Sometimes it’s benign and the host reabsorbs it. Other times it’s spreads and kills living tissue

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        I’d say it’s like a tailbone. It was once useful (when we were apes), but has long since lost all purpose. Now it is just a useless appendage and if you touch it the wrong way, you can end up paralized for the rest of your life. We can’t go without though, because it’s attached to out spine and muscles.

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      If you’re not religious why are you upset that some people didn’t get a proper burial?

      There were death certificates so it’s unlikely there’s foul play, unless there’s some details this poorly written article is missing. It’s just they didn’t observe proper religious ceremony on the disposal of the deceased.

      So your argument is that religious people are bad because some religious people don’t always follow religious ceremonies? Like if you don’t think religion is good, why would you be upset over improper disposal of the deceased?

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        Yeah, I’m sure there was no foul play in an abusive institution dealing with most vunerable members of society.

        Why do people simp for organized religion so hard?

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        I don’t give a fuck about proper burials.

        Burying bodies in cemeteries is an incredibly selfish thing. All cemeteries and golf courses should be converted into income based housing.

        I only said religious people are fucked in the head. Full stop.

        All religious people are mentally unwell and a danger to society.

        I hope that cleared it up!

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          You sound like an Israeli talking about Palestinians. Or a Nazi talking about furries. Or, dare I say, a religious person talking about atheists…

          You are religious too, it’s just that your religion is atheism. You’re just as dogmatic as those nuns.

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          Honestly I think that thinking that having a place for people to grieve their loved ones is a selfish thing is realy fucked in the head.

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            You don’t need a grief theme park full of buried corpses. You can grieve anywhere.

            Believe me, I’ve done it too many times to mention, both for family and friends.

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            Sure, plant and dedicate a tree. Or a bench by a lake. Or keep an urn on your mantle. Or thousands of other ways. But, sorry you can’t live here because we need this space exclusively to grieve?

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              Well, the tree thing is reality for those that chose forest burials (at least thats a thing in my country).

              I think we would run out of benches by lakes rather quick. Also, that is a thing already.

              Keeping an Urn is not legal everywhere. I agree the it should be.

              The thing is, that humans want to do something with he their loves ones remains. We are incredibly social creates, to the point where our bonds last beyond death. We have buried our dead for thousands and thousands of years. Neanderthals buried their dead. It’s just an extremely human way to process grieve, complete independent of any religion.

              So having a dedicated space to do so makes total sense. Of course that takes up room. But I’d argue that having a park like, walkable and often very beautiful place in your neighborhood is a net win for everybody. Unless you think that we should also get rid of parks and other recreational areas.

              And, you have the possibility to visit a dedicated place of grievance close by, which is sensible especially for elderly people.

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        This is the second time this week I’ve seen this argument:

        • Religion has historically done X
        • religion is bad
        • why do you care about X, that’s religious!

        (The last one was about marriage)

        I suspect that you’re a religious person making a slippery slope fallacy.

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          slippery slope fallacy

          Did you just randomly select some fallacy from a list in an attempt to sound clever?

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        Holy shit.

        Article - 800 dead babies.

        You - There was no sign of foul play why would you heathens care about burial?

        Get your fucking head checked.

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        These homes existed purely to punish unwed mothers, because Catholicism. Don’t even try to minimise the deep national trauma still felt today because it might show a weirdo cult in a bad light.

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          Priests molested altar boys. That’s some real fucking trauma that left lifetimes of emotional scars on people that still alive now.

          But sure something that happened to some dead bodies over 60 years ago is something you want to devote your two minutes of atheist hate towards today. You’re well adjusted and have everything in the proper perspective, LOL.

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            That’s not very fair. It’s fairly safe to assume that each of those babies were linked to lifetimes of emotional scars, too, just not for the babies.

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            You don’t think it was traumatic for young women (plenty of whom are still alive) to be kidnapped into these institutions, physically and mentally abused, and have their newborn child (again, a great number still alive and wondering who they are) forcibly removed from them, with no idea where they ended up?

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        Wait what? 20 deaths a year and because there is a death certificate there is no foul play?

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        You realise you don’t need to be religious to believe that people deserve a proper burial right? There doesn’t need to be some man in the sky watching everyone 24/7 for people to be buried with dignity

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          Yeah, burial is mostly just to make sure critters don’t drag your rotting bits out into the open and your putrid parts don’t contaminate the water supply.

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            That’s the practical aspect, but I believe the dignity and respect shown throughout the process gives people some closure.

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        I dont agree with the original commenter, but come on.

        This is a thread about babies.

        Do you really think people need a religion to see that throwing their dead bodies in a septic tank is an incredibly disrespectful and dehumanizing act?

        I dont need to wish for a christian burial to understand the implications of christian nuns doing this.

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      There’s only two religions in the planet that do this kind of thing with any frequency. Don’t make yourself sound like a literal Reddit atheist. You’re here exactly because Reddit sucks. Don’t bring it back.

      Many people are religious without doing this kind of shit.

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          Show me examples of Buddhists, Native Americans, or Paganists doing this kind of stuff. The literal reason Islamism and Christianity are particularly bad is because they’re mass-adopted and politicians take advantage of that.

          Just remove all religion from politics and there won’t be any problems. Human rights dictate freedom of religion AND FROM religion, not just the later.

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              Sorry that your religious trauma causes you to be bigoted, I guess. You’re no better than Israelis.

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            Have you heard of the Rohingya genocide? Buddhists absolutely do fucked up shit.

            I would agree with you that not all religion is bad. But singling out Christianity and Islam as the exclusively bad ones is absurd.

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            Almost every religion has some kind of missionary element, trying to spread or enforce its beliefs (and selling it as eternal truth). That’s basically how they survive and grow.

            That’s the core problem for me: the need to convince others to believe the same thing. It turns personal belief into pressure, and that’s exactly why I don’t trust any religion.

            Yes, it’s not all religions, but … (you should know how to finish the sentence)

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            Tell me you know nothing about buddhism without telling me you know nothing about buddhism. While we’re at it, opinions on hinduism?

            Smaller religions have been sacrificing children since the stone age.

            I’m not saying its all bad, but singling out two religions in your general area and blaming the problem on them being “political” as if religion isn’t based on dictating social norms is ridiculous.

            I agree with the freedom to believe, though. Doesnt mean that there arent inherent dangers to this stuff. You’re in a thread about murdered babies, please keep that in mind.

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            Buddhists - Rohynga Genocide

            Native Americans - Aztec human sacrifice, up to 20,000 per year.

            Paganists - not a thing. Paganism is a description, not a religion. But there are plenty of neo-Nazi neo-pagan groups who love burning churches.

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              So like I used to be anti-religion. But when I studied the history of religious thought, it seemed like every criticism I had of religion I was able to find a religious tradition which explicitly accounted for that criticism, and it made me realize a lot of the essential beliefs that I had about religion in general were simply untrue. Like there are religious traditions that literally deny institutionalization (so you can’t even associate religion in general with organized religion), there are literally religions that explicitly reject the existence of any kind of deity (so you can’t even identify religion with a belief in some kind of a god). In general, it seemed like the only thing that literally all religions had in common was that they represented a set of metaphysical beliefs that an individual has attached themself to for whatever reason. And I realized that it’s kind of impossible to never make any metaphysical assumptions about the world we live in. And I started to ask myself questions like “is it even possible to reject the entire category of religious thought in a meaningful way while still retaining the ability to reason about the world?” And “is there actually a good reason why I don’t want to think of my own humanist ideas about the world as religious in nature, or does it just make me feel kind of funny because I had already prejudiced myself so heavily against the concept of religious thought?”

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                Weird. I had the exact opposite experience.

                I find every religion to be a liars den of lies.

                And all religious people are liars fools or worse.

                Humanism and religion are polar opposite ideas.

                Don’t apologize for religion. It’s gross.

                Keep that shit away from me and my kids. You bring it near my kids we are going to have a fucking problem.

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                  I feel like you didn’t actually try to understand any of what I just said. I hate to break it to you, but it’s literally just a fact that there are religions that make metaphysical assumptions that are literally equivalent to secular humanism. If you think that they’re actually contradictory, it just means that you probably actually haven’t tried to study the history of religious thought from an actually critical perspective where you didn’t just presume that you already had it all figured out.

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              If you think every religious person is evil then I’m sorry, but your religious trauma is not an excuse. Go back to reddit.

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                Not necessarily evil. But every religious person is damaging to society and the environment out of ignorance, because, for example, their voting is based on beliefs disjunct from reality, including absolute morals that will vilify a substantial part of the populace for no sane reason.

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                The people are not evil. They are mostly indoctrinated and duped. The religion itself is just as evil as any other virus that weasels in.

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              This is not a position born out of logic and reason, but out of hate. I hope you get better at some point, you obviously have suffered a lot to become filled with rage this much.

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                This is not a position born out of logic and reason, but out of hate.

                Bingo.

                All religions are hate groups. EVERY SINGLE ONE.

                You nailed it.

                You’re so close to getting better yourself.

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                  You’re so close to getting better yourself.

                  You don’t sound like someone who is doing well, why would anyone want to be like you? The folk replying to you are applying empathy and patience while you shut everyone down with vitriol.

                  Being angry isn’t fun, anger slowly drains you of your joy and energy. Anger only feels like fun when the alternative is to face pain

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    • According to the church, babies are without sin. If they die at birth, they go straight to heaven.
    • Abortion was illegal at the time.
    • Contraception was not widely available at the time, heavily discouraged by the church, and was still very primitive and hit-and-miss.
    • There were far more unwed mothers having babies than couples who couldn’t have children, but wanted them.

    1+1=2.

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    To the “religion is what makes us civil” crowd, fuck off all the way to whatever hell you believe in or just the sun.

    Disclaimer: This is not a call for violence.

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      I have never understood this pseudo-argument. Christian morality is based on the fear of eternal punishment. Do these fools even realize that?! Morality can be explained much more comprehensibly and naturally through evolution and empathy.

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        It’s a major self-report without them even realizing. They’re basically saying that, without the threat of eternal damnation, nothing would stop them from raping and murdering.

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      I’m pretty sure it’s more like: religions define what we find civil as a society. Personal spiritual beliefs define what people find acceptable and unacceptable. Religion align spiritual beliefs among social groups.

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        Numbers 31:18

        But all the women children, that have not known a man by lying with him, keep alive for yourselves.

        You can keep the “religion defines what we find civil as a society.” Miss me with all of the shit.

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          Id say religion tends to be more of a reflection of what a society finds as civil. Look at other religions around the world, or historical religions and there are some things that would be entirely unacceptable in my local society at least.

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            I find them more to be a reflection of a small group. Then it is pushed on others to force them to assimilate. Christianity, Hindism, Islam, Judaism, and every other group has “do what we say or else.”

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      “civil”

      Recently in England there was a Turkish man burning the koran… a Muslim guy came out and lunged at him several times with a knife he just happened to have on him shouting “you will not burn my holy book” or some such, the book burner was charged by the police (the bible can be burnt in England but for some reason the koran cannot). Kier Starmer didn’t want to progress an investigation into child abuse because of how it will expose the Muslim men abusing working class young white girls because their religion states girls who don’t cover their hair are sluts.

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      My main issue in discussions on religion is that either side generally claims that either “it makes us civil”, as you say, or that “it’s the cause of evil”. In reality it’s neither. Religion has traditionally been (still is, I’m afraid) a powerful form of crowd control that in past times has steered some believers into doing better deeds by the duality of the hell-heaven system, and likewise has twisted others into extremism and using religion as justification for evil acts. Most of the time it’s just a simple way of life that rids you of the need to question the universe and to carve your own path. As a “Muslim” I sometimes, in some ways, envy those that simply view the etiquettes, laws, and traditions that govern their lives as unquestionable truths. There’s no need to search for purpose, you’re already born with it.

      Humans are flawed and evil. That is true with or withour religion.

      Sorry for rambling.

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        I think you nailed it here. The successful religions are the ones that are useful as tools for the powerful. It’s not the cause of evil, but it’s something that lets powerful people convince people to do awful things.

        On the other hand, for the believers, it’s a source of community and comfort. They’re given simple rules to follow and promised that their suffering is not in vain. It gives them simple answers to complex questions.

        It also allows people to get over feeling bad. A bad thing is “part of god’s plans”. A bad thing you did is not really your fault because a trickster god made you do it, or the devil made you do it, so you don’t need to do any self-reflection. Or, a bad thing happened to you or someone you love, that’s just a bad god, or a devil, or a complex part of a god’s plan, so you don’t need to worry about it. This is all really useful for leaders, because they’re inevitably closer to the gods than the people they control, and they get to use excuses like “you’re suffering because the gods are unhappy with you” or “it’s your lot in life, because you were born to that caste” or “this was all because of this wicked group of other people who believe in a different god, so we should kill them and take their land”.

        Humans are flawed and sometimes evil, but religion is a very useful tool to manipulate those people.

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        Religion, from the start, has been used primarily as a means of control. It is a system that is built for “flawed and evil” humans to exploit in order to oppress and control others.

        Anything good that might come from that is incidental and in spite of that.

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        If it was an order of male monks found with 800 dead babies, “men are absolute monsters” would absolutely among the top comments.

        Just the age we live in.

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        Since nobody seems capable of remembering women can be monsters too, I thought I’d help y’all remember for the next time you have the impulse to villify men.

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    My dad recent got a decent payout for being the internationally trafficked childhood victim of one of these unwed mother homes…

    Not worth his lifetime of trauma, nor the issues that came with being sold at age 4 to a “keeping up appearances” family that sent him away to boarding school on top of everything…

    But it’s something…

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    All these institutions of god trying to tell us our souls will be saved if we follow them. and that the “other” religions are prophligates, infidels, devils and heretics. LMAO

    I’ve yet to find one that isn’t hiding a history of butchery

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    How do they determine age with a DNA test? Wouldn’t say look at the remains from the death baby’s? I have questions.

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    If your society cannot or will not support an unmarried pregnant woman on her own, your society is a failed one.