• miss_demeanour@lemmy.dbzer0.comdeleted by creator
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      10 months ago

      Agreed. Could be a relatively active post, excellent engagement and then:

      doofus1: “Is this AI?” <it clearly isn’t>

      doofus2: “Now that you mention it…proceeds to launch 5 paragraphs as to how it’s AI…blah, blah…” <it isn’t AI>

      experts1, 2, &3: “It’s not AI”

      doofuses 1& 2, whilst being downvoted into oblivion, push back ad nauseum despite admitting they could be wrong.

      14 comments in the thread later, a mod removes some…

      Original post succesully derailed.

      OP deletes popular post, bc “Why bother?”

      lather.rinse.repeat.

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    10 months ago

    I regularly notice how some people simply delete their post because they don’t like the way people are answering to it. It’s fine they don’t like those answers, it’s not fair they are given the power to mute them.

    I find that behavior annoying. Not because someone deletes their post. I mean, they’re free to do whatever they want, but because by doing so they also render the entire discussion unavailable.

    Like if all the other participants were submitted to their whims.

    Imho, a solution could be to let people delete their post but not the technical-something-whatever that made their post accessible to read and to answer. And so, no matter how shy or regretful the OP could ever be, people that have answered would not be dependent on their willingness to let them speak. And even if the OP was deleted other people would still be able to read the comments and maybe keep on discussing without te OP being involved.

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      10 months ago

      There was a user or two I would explicitly quote their whole comment because of this.

      Had an other user constantly edit his post to add points after I replied which was much worse imo.

      The only time I ever delete a comment is if it’s within 30 seconds of posting it, as to not cause things like this.

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        10 months ago

        There was a user or two I would explicitly quote their whole comment because of this.

        I considered doing that too a while ago, but then realized it was more work & wasted time for us, right? While we could still see the whole thread risk being deleted because OP decides to? So I decided not to. Instead, I block the persons I’ve noticed doing that so I don’t to waste my time reading their posts anymore in the future and won’t risk wasting even more time trying to comment.

        Simply put, since they consider it’s ok for them to delete everyone’s content who participated because they’re unhappy about how it turned, well, I help them stay deleted once and for all from my feed ;)

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    10 months ago

    I’ll try and answer seriously, with some non-exclusive options, in no particular order:

    • Feeling ashamed, mostly because they’re realizing they’re either wrong or sounding stupid.
    • Not wanting controversial stuff related to them to be “saved” for others to find and use for scrutiny.
    • Honest mistakes (wrong community, thread, etc.)
    • The post becomes a cesspool in the comments.
    • Other personal reasons (feeling threatened, wanting a clean inbox, question got answered and they don’t care about historic purposes, etc.)

    These are just my guesses though, and I try and not delete anything personally. I’m aware that anything I put on the internet will be immortalized, and that the healthiest thing I can do is own both my mistakes and my opinions, even if I’m convinced of my stupidity or ignorance at a later time. I’m only a human after all, and doomed to talk before I think. Best I can do is to learn as much as possible from it, and hope that others can also learn from my actions.

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      10 months ago

      the post becomes a cesspool in the comments.

      LPT - How to derail a post:

      Query as to whether it’s AI (even when it isn’t)

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      10 months ago

      More often than not this is the reason right here. I post, then go reload to see my post out in the wild. Sometimes it takes a minute to realize I must erase its existence.

  • Sasha [They/Them]@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    10 months ago

    I deleted one once because I complained about someone by name, hoping someone else would have experience with them and could offer better advice.

    I think it would have been relatively easy for them to find that post, which I didn’t want to risk given that they could cause me harm by denying their services. It wouldn’t have been hard to work out who I was given the context I provided.

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    10 months ago

    knowledge can be posted freely but NOT SHARED

    any time someone on here corrects your grammar or usage, just remember they absolutely didn’t get picked for peer review for anything to Nature

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    10 months ago

    ill delete mine if:

    1. it has any form of information that could potentially be used to personally identify me when I realize retroactively

    2. i get embarrassed when I try to contribute to a community and get down voted to oblivion