It is , we’re quite civil most of the time these days. I had to let go of a lot of resentment about the past. When we had kids I expected him to be my “other half” but he wasn’t and there’s no point dwelling on that now. We were both different people back then, and I realised it was my own resentment which was stopping me from moving forward now and just living a happy life.
If it’s a not a tough thing, even when you know it’s right, it’s another whole basket of issues. Hope you’re doing okay, happy to lend an ear either way!
Thanks. There was no “thing” wrong, it just wasn’t right. Previously idve spent a few months growing to resent things before acting, so I guess this is an improvement.
The relationship has ended by my decision. :(
I feel for you, it’s a hard decision to have to make. 🫂
I remember your breakup. I hope its going well these days.
It is , we’re quite civil most of the time these days. I had to let go of a lot of resentment about the past. When we had kids I expected him to be my “other half” but he wasn’t and there’s no point dwelling on that now. We were both different people back then, and I realised it was my own resentment which was stopping me from moving forward now and just living a happy life.
That sounds very positive for you.
Hugs. Be gentle with yourself. Even if you ended it it still sucks
I’m sorry to hear that 😔
Hard even when it’s for the best. Internet hugs.
I’m so sorry. 🫂
If it’s a not a tough thing, even when you know it’s right, it’s another whole basket of issues. Hope you’re doing okay, happy to lend an ear either way!
Thanks. There was no “thing” wrong, it just wasn’t right. Previously idve spent a few months growing to resent things before acting, so I guess this is an improvement.
So sorry. It’s a hard thing to have to do.
Sorry to hear it man. Be extra kind to yourself for a while ❤️
Sucks to hear it happened that way but glad you made the right choice early
I’m sorry to hear that :(