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Cake day: February 1st, 2025

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  • Are you missing a chromosome?

    What do you actually think would happen here? That a friend would text me within, idk, 1 to 4 hours of his mom dying? I think he’s got bigger problems - calling a funeral home, or just dealing with the grief.

    Was he supposed to text me before the body was cold?

    Or was I supposed to text him, either hourly or before I say anything else, “Hey, if your mom dead yet?”.

    I didn’t go to Instagram LOOKING for this information. But it was there. As this was when the algorithm was new, I had a decade of experience with IG to expect that if there was anything recent, a quick scroll would surface it, but I was also doing the same thing I’d do a couple times a day.

    But IG manipulated my feed, ruined the experience and caused an awkward moment.




  • I’ll share a short story of how the algorithm sucks. A friend’s mom was dying of cancer. I knew it would be within a few days or week. He was texting me a lot - but in random bursts - trying to distract himself from the inevitable. I scrolled through IG, thought I saw it all, and having not heard from him in a while, I texted him something somewhat goofy.

    He texted me back, “My mom just died”. I had no idea. Sure enough, scroll another 5 minutes and buried at the end of my feed is his post from less than 2 hours ago.

    Instagram made me look like a dick because they’d rather show me 26 hour old content, than 2 hour content.