no idea about which game server, but i would definitely put everything behind a vpn and give the connector to the 20 friends.

nowadays a vpn connector is available for every platform and the peace of mind you get is priceless.

For me it depends on the hw on site; if it is properly setup and in an adequate environment i have no issue anywhere.

(me too i did #2 at home…)

Proxmox is a virtualization solution: let it do its job and run a vm with opnsense.

It is simple both from a virtualization and a networking perspective; your hypervisor is ‘hypervisoring’ and the firewall is firewalling, easier to maintain and debug, no custom thinkering required.

If you are at home go with #1, more fun and lots of discoveries; if you have to pay the bills, go with #2, tested, solid, easier to handoff to your colleagues.

IMHO you should look/ask for such a feature in a google group because big g may have a business case for such a feature: it would pull back in those users who try to escape.

and that should not be an immich feature but a google one.

as a self-hoster I prefer to have control on my data; a solution to feed my data to google through a third party (that may do whatever it wants while performing the transfer) is the exact opposite of what i’m trying to achieve and would have little to no value for me.

If the main site gets compromised the credentials there must be considered lost and known to che attackers.

with a pull backup that’s not an issue because the main site has no access to the remote system; it is a process on the remote site that has credentials to access the main site and not the other way around.

the remote system may receive retrieve a compromised copy of the data, but the attacker cannot tamper with previous backups so recovery is still possible.

Fifa Agent Platform -> FAP

pun intended?

Furry equipment FTW

https://fursonafy.com/fursuit-cooling-vests-everything-you-need-to-know/

last thing missing in your post is a complaint for slow migration on a 1gbit link…

you can complain as much as you want because proxmox is not vmware or you can embrace proxmox and make the effort to move/update/refresh your knowlwdge on to the new environment.

This is the way. 🤭

The second install should be easier since is done just after a test one.

Add a second node using the new drive, move all vm to the new node, decommission old node, rebuild the old node with the new drive.

You can get away with a disk clone but in my opinion a vm move is the proper way to go.

Adding a new node you start with a clean install, any quirk you have on the old hw will be finally washed away (or will bite you back and be properly documented), you have a quick way back should anything go sideways (the clone too provides a quick way back, but i like this way much more ^^), you get some hands on multi node experience that will be useful for ha setup.

Normal background noise. ssh is a well known protocol/port and scanning is automated.

The article is on a ‘pay or ok’ site.

In proxmox you create a vlan on the physical interface and not on a bridge.

Once the physical port has tagged traffic for all vlan but LAN, leave vmbr0 alone, create the new DMZ vlan in proxmox networking and a new vmbr on that vlan, that’s it.

If your vps is a firewall, you could use it as an exit point for different private networks: ip1 to mask the traffic for a guest subnet that you don’t trust and if the ip gets blacklisted there are no issues for lan traffic behind ip2 while ip3 is reserved for server traffic with specific rulesets on supplier’s systems for updates/backup/whatnot. Should you have more than one mail server because of reasons, if one is blacklisted the other could remain clean (in this situation you usually put them on different subnets but whatever).

Mailu is a mail server so it is suitable for the task.

You need a mail server somewhere, a mail client cannot listen for incoming messages. A possible workaround: you could activate your own mail server accessible only inside tailscale and use it to send and receive your local alerts.