Facebook only barely an idea mid 2000s?
Most of my friends had ditched MySpace for Facebook shortly after highschool and I graduated in 2003.
Capitalism
Heres your reminder to get the fuck off the internet in your free time, stop giving these bastards your data for free
The big tech industry products are like that. There are still small communities which are meaningful, peaceful and friendly.
Take a look at knockout.chat
Oh, that’s what the old Facepunch forum evolved into, right? Yeah, that was a really nice place when I last visited, but that was years ago. I just felt like I had grown out of it.
I was there, even a couple years before that… and in reality not so much has changed.
What we now call “The Internet” is what BTX (in germany) was back then: A commercialised platform controlled by corporations. Trolling, hate, ragebait… all nothing new, just look at archived posts from the Usenet!
The cool thing is that we now can rebuild something that is more akin to the BBS networks of yesteryear, something like the Fido-net, something that is entirely owned by the people using it.
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It was for sure toxic af, but a lot less commercial. Actually the early internet was incredibly hostile to corps, but then the banner ads came, and the eyeballs, and the ads started actually making more money than just server costs, and it was all over.
Yeah, i remember the fucking aim chat bots fucking ruining everything
Online tolling and raging have been around far longer than the mid 2000s.
If anything I’d say the Internet has gotten nicer overall.
There was always a tacit understanding you were coming into someone’s house. Sometimes quite literally. The server for a forum I used for 20+ years was in various apartment closets most of that time. House rules, so to speak, weren’t controversial.
Now everyone’s used to using centralized commercial servers for rent, with things like ads and liability insurance. Social media is considered a public space, even when it isn’t.
I’m reminded of some business-person(?) saying that people often forget that “store this on the cloud” is basically saying “store this on someone else’s computer”. I have used this reframing a few times to help ground discussions around data infrastructure.
Social media is considered a public space, even when it isn’t.
Like when people claim their right to free speech was denied because a privately-owned website banned them. They seem to think that if a platform allows them to speak publically, it’s the same as saying something out in a public street.
In reality, it’s more like being in a venue with an open mic - it’s a private (and likely commercial) space by default. If you go up on stage and say something the owners or managers don’t like, you absolutely can be kicked out for it. Private websites, including social media, are the same way.
Yup. Mainstream social media is chaos, not community. I would even extend this to fedi if we aren’t careful.
Ah yes, the halceon days of non-stop pop-up ads and malware taskbars. /s
Not to mention that everything they mentioned was absolutely started to become what it is today. Nothing changed, they just progressed their plans over 20 years. Pretending it was all started with benevolent intentions is naive at best.
Are you telling me Bonzai Buddy was not really my Buddy?
Google did not work great. Finding what you’re looking for resulted in going through a ton of pages of results. It was chaotic.
On the early days of the internet, I found a website about a comic I like. I emailed the person who made the website. I told them that I liked the site, and I sent them a game that I’d made (which had nothing whatsoever to do with the comic or their site). They tried the game and said it was fun…
That kind of interaction can never happen any more. Money has ruined it. Scams and monetization, everywhere, making everything into manipulative toxic sludge.
Start using gopher today
More of a Gemini person, myself. On Offpunk or Geopard, depending on the mood.
It really doesn’t need to be this way.
At any time, we can decide to open our own blog for $9 a year. At any time we can choose to ditch algorithmic socials.
If we don’t like them, we don’t need to use them, and just switch off.
you can publish independently, but it’s hard to get found. Search engines are cluttered with nonsensical link farms these days :-(
We all found our way to Lemmy, and we can start building from here.
Advertise here, right? Build small communities. How many readers do you even want? I mean that seriously, too. Maybe you would be happy with 100 people who subscribe to your RSS feed, depending on your goals.
it’s also about the perspective of the one looking for information. how do I find the info I search?
It wasn’t easy getting found in the 2000s as well
I miss stumbleupon. Was a great way to find random niche stuff like that back in the day.
It isn’t the same but https://kagi.com/smallweb is kinda in the spirit of it.
and that was a bad thing. it’s bad now, too.
Blogger is free I think - though a domain name will cost ya. I’ve thought about doing this for a while. Back to blogging. Seems so therapeutic.
take a look at neocities.org
Looks very cool! I like the relaxed vibe.
Between SEO and Googles own bullshit finding information online feels like trying to find the milk in a supermarket or the exit in a casino, designed to make you pass through as much bullshit that’s completely unrelated to what you actually want as possible.
It’s a bit more nuanced. Trolling and ragebait absolutely was a thing, but there was still a certain sense that it was just part of the Wild West nature of the internet. Someone posting racist garbage on a phpBB would be a minor irritant that would catch a bit of flak but be otherwise ignored.
These days it’s entire office blocks full of professional trolls armed with advanced analytics, profiling systems and AI paid to push political agendas. And the most frustrating part of it is that despite the fact that everyone knows this to be true, it’s still working anyway and we have elected officials of ostensibly Developed countries repeating obvious bullshit they saw online.
People had thicker skins too and IRC’s
/ignorewas used.
People now whimper over anything and can’t seem to know how to block others.Trolls actually saw themselves as an art from. Everyone else saw them as annoying cretins.
I agree with your comment.
It ain’t years it’s months ago…
I can literally never use Reddit again but all.my search results keep taking me there
At least you have something to search unlike with discord servers.









