Outliving your own child.
This maneuver is gonna cost you 51 years.
Refusing to vaccinate your children and losing one to measles in 2025
https://abc13.com/post/texas-measles-death-parents-child-died-stand-decision-not-vaccinate/16065046/
What about when your brain is capable of the mental gymnastics required to deny any culpability in said preventable tragedy? These morons tend to have that superpower.
Is it really a tragedy when you harm yourself or you own family through you own stupidity?
It’s a tragedy for the child, and their friends, but I wouldn’t say it’s a tragedy for the parents.
It’s basically a Greek tragedy. These people have such hubris to think that they know better than doctors, and they lose their children because of it.
My wife was rushed by ambulance to the area hospital with post-partum complication at about 48 hours.
Then seven days latter our new born was rushed off to the same hospital with suspected meningitis - she spent nearly 2 week there starting in NICU.
Both wife and daughter survived, although both were pretty hard to go through at the time.
If either of them ended for the worse it would have been crushing - if both of these had ended badly I suspect it would be fairly well up there
I’m sorry that you and your family had to experience such frightening times like that. I’m glad that they both pulled through.
Thanks, almost 9 years ago now so not too bad to look back on it
Being enslaved probably?
Trump has been my biggest one, entirely seriously. My partner and I uprooted our lives and left our home fleeing the country. We were forced to say goodbye to our friends, our family, and a huge loving artist community. We had just found a fantastic apartment around the corner from our friend, and my career as an artist was really starting to blow up but now it’s on pause because of visa restrictions. I have never cried so much in my life. I used to never cry.
The trauma runs so deep that I frequently hallucinate seeing my friends while I’m out and about, it absolutely kills me every time. I remember telling my partner “we will remember these as the good ole days” the day before the election.
I’m a trans latina immigrant
there’s a really cool art bar near me that i think is going to be the thing i miss the most when i leave… if i can leave…
In a way it’s a bad thing to have a competition who has the worst. We all suffer one way or the other, and we should lift each other up.
Anyway, here are my top entries:
- abuse by one’s parents
- loss of a loved one
- refusal to get help
Death of a loved one by unnatural causes.
I would think that loss of a child. As a teenager, I had a neighbor whose friend had lost both a child and a spouse and who said that the spouse was more difficult. Of course this is subjective and will depend on each person.
The greatest tragedy a person could experience is the one they do experience.
alzheimers or losing one to it.
Being born with no direction in life. My whole entire life feels completely aimless and it has always just been making it off of audibles and improvisations. I have absolutely no clue what I even intend to do within the next 5 years.
If you’ve been born into a family whose only knowledge is struggle and no plans or ambitions, they would get this.
Obviously, everything is relative and trauma comes in many varieties. Nothing should be taken for granted and everyone’s experience is valuable.
That said, this seems pretty fucked up: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fritzl_case
Watch Grave of the Fireflies. I feel that’s pretty high on the totem pole of pain.
Indifference.
I think that you can make most tragedies worse in a fairly-mechanical fashion. Whatever it is, it’s probably worse if you’re being stung by bees at the same time, for example. So trying to come up with the very worst tragedy seems like it’d be pretty hard. You could list some bad tragedies…
