I lost my mum 19 years ago. I’ve learned that the pain is a signal that I truly loved her, and I still do but time diminishes the hurt. I’ve learned that she still lives on in my thoughts, “what would mum do?”, I reflect on tricky issues, and she’s back in my world, just not physically. I notice I’ve inherited some of her mannerisms the more I age, so she’s never far away and continuing to persist through me. It sounds as if your dad raised you to be a caring, loving thinker. He’s succeeded, he’d be proud. Now take a deep breath and carry his legacy forward.
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Ask UK@feddit.uk•At the GPs is it best to raise every health concern you have, or to just stick to the one reason you gave in the booking?
4·5 months agoIf the symptoms are connected, such as sinus infection and bad cough, tell the doctor. If unrelated, such as sinus infection and knee pain, book another appointment.
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Casual UK@feddit.uk•Surrey woman, 115, becomes world’s oldest personEnglish
0·1 year agoI grew up there in the sixties. Regular ingredients came from the local market (this was before supermarkets) who typically sold regionally grown produce. We supplemented with home and allotment grown vegetables which were shared around the neighborhood. The food was great. Tinned food was quite expensive and generally considered an unhealthy novelty best used on camping trips - I’m looking at you fray bentos, you and your weird deliciousness.
https://flathub.org/ is a great way to manage linux apps/programmes. Very easy and several other benefits
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No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What are some FOSS programs that are objectively better than their proprietary counterparts?
0·1 year agoif it’s for construction use, Bonsai is an incredibly powerful BIM solution that can also output 2D. Bonsai is probably the most complete IFC compliant (and native) system available.
can you still get the fabulous Marmite Twiglets in the UK? I live in SE Asia now, and marmite spare ribs are widely available and absolutely delicious, and cheap, so all good.
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And Finally...@feddit.uk•I changed my name to Pudsey Bear and now I can't get a passport
0·2 years ago16 years without a passport! So in 16 years she’s not even been to Chester! What, what?
why even fly? Just jump up high in San Francisco, and wait for the earth to revolve beneath you before coming back down and landing in Houston. Houston, no problem.
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And Finally...@feddit.uk•Man claimed he was 'warming up his chicken' in sauna - but truth was disgusting
0·2 years agoChicken? Certainly foul.
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United Kingdom@feddit.uk•UK government announces tender for live facial recognition technologyEnglish
0·2 years agoIn 1998 i was part of a project team that included the Met Police’s IT R&D team. Those guys had a novel facial recognition system then, that was trialled in Clarendon Road in Watford. The results were not good, but the reason for canning it was that the civil liberties groups were going nuts and threatening mayhem. I cannot believe that 26 years later they haven’t already implemented it and been using it for some time.


In a preemptive strike, aliens abduct ‘the leader of the free world’.